If someone truly wanted to change their lives/gender, I believe they should go before a judge. It's just apart of life. There is so many different scenarios out there that make people go through hoops to get something changed. What makes them special? If you want equality then they need to go through the system along with all the trials and tribulations that go along with it, in order to change what they truly want. That's the judicial system. Accept it and move on. Everyone else in this world has to do the same to accomplish something. I also believe that whatever plumbing you have is what restroom you should go to as well. Why would you want a man who is a "woman" to go to the same restroom as our children? If you make it to where they have to go through the judicial system then it would protect our women and children from a potential man who decided to be a "woman" for the day from molesting them in the restroom when they're at a vulnerable state.