oxford house helps all people, color, race, sexual orientation. it doesnt matter, oxford opens there doors and welcomes you with no judgement and all they do is love and support you. they give you advice and then eventually you have to get and be a member of society. be the man or woman you suppose to be. just because we addicts doesnt mean our lives dont matter!!!! oxford helps so let us just keep doing our best with oxford... parents can finally get there stuff together and regain custody of there children. thats a blessing all by itself!!!!!