Only God creates us and we cannot change what God has created. Many times some traumatic experience has confused children and created doubt in their mind. Truly the evil happening is straight from the devil. The doubt created is used by the devil to encourage deviance from God's plan for us as His children. What these children need is help! They do not need everyone making it easier for the evil to take hold of their lives and create even more confusion for them. What these children need is to be reminded of the love God has for them and who God created them to be. They need adults to help them through their confusion, not offer them more confusion to pile on top. The only way for these children to find true happiness is to be reminded of the fact that they are God's children and He has loved them from before he created them.